We never even kissed

Twenty five years ago today, Paula made me the happiest man in the world.

Our wedding was a bit different. Our first “date” was attending Catholic mass at the chapel on SMU’s campus, and we wanted to get married there. We also didn’t want our families to spend a lot of money on travel. We wanted to keep things simple.

Father Tom suggested we get married during normal Sunday mass … this is such a great option – I don’t know why more people don’t do it. We had 200-300 people attend our wedding, and all but 15 or 20 didn’t know they were going to witness a wedding that day!

We walked down the aisle together, while wonderful musician friends of mine played and sang. My friend Leslie’s husband took some great pictures, like this one, which still sits on my desk today:


One of our favorite memories is that we were waiting for Fr Tom to tell us it was time to kiss, and he never did. When he announced us as a wedded couple to applause, we just butted heads instead. To this day, we often lovingly butt heads.

Thank you, sweet Paula, for all our adventures. I look forward to many more together.

8 thoughts on “We never even kissed

  1. Cathy Vidrine

    Happy 25th Anniversary to two very special people in my life. Hope y’all enjoy your special day together. May God bless y’all with many more blessings. Love y’all dearly. Nanny-nanny BooBoo!

  2. Jody

    Beautiful words. Congratulations on 25 and I hope you have at least 50 more. Glad to know your family.


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