Monthly Archives: May 2007

The Way of the Superior Man

The last couple of years have been difficult for me, but I read a book that really helped: The Way of the Superior Man, by David Deida.
The title is a tad goofy, but the book is amazing. I was shelf browsing on a particularly bad day when I read the first paragraph:
Most men make the error of thinking that one day it will be done. They think, "If I could work enough, then one day I could rest." Or, "One day my woman will understand something, and then she will stop complaining." Or, "I’m only doing this now so that one day I can do what I really want with my life." The masculine error is to think that eventually things will be different in some fundamental way. They won’t. It never ends. As long as life continues, the creative challenge is to tussle, play, and make love with the present moment while giving your unique gift.
Frankly, when I first read this in the store, I started crying, so I figured I better buy the book. Ever since, I have been on a journey toward becoming the man I want to be.
I think I’ve given away six copies of this book so far, and I intend to give away many more. It’s been that important to me.

The Flower

You are the flower that every raindrop seeks
So lucky to fall near your petals
Brazenly claiming to nourish your tender buds
When truly the flower is the gift to the rain
Your radiant beauty inspires fields of wildflowers
Spreading joy like seeds upon the wind
Rejuvenating barren soil so many miles from your stem
Restoring the dark, coffee smell of life to the earth
“Quiero hacer contigo
 lo que la primavera hace con los cerezos”
“I want to do with you
 what spring does with the cherry blossoms”
To be worthy of your thirst …
to feed your gentle leaves …
to revel with you in your bloom